For Family

 We encounter many people throughout life. Some helps us, some takes our advantage. Some treat us well, some do not know how to treat, some do not want to treat. Everyone have their own priority in life, attached to their goals. Working day and night toward goals, gives feeling of satisfaction, accomplished, worthy and brings prosperity and happiness in life. 

Toward living daily life, most close member who helps us in all situation without need of return, like "Nishkam karma", they are our family members. They work toward you like they are doing, its their duty, its their happiness, its their love, devotion to you. They treat us well in all situations, stands with us in hard situations. They live their life for you, with you, especially mom dad. They have spent 25-30 years in giving a good life to their son/daughter. Parents are giving them everything children need in future to survive this world, have a good life full of abundance. 

Some understands easily at start, as they are always have inward stability and have never done bad, so have peace and can think of greater things. Some have inward instability due to bad action in past or in present. They can change themselves, fully and bring inward stability to start where they are. Its never too late. Atleast rest of their life, they will be thinking and doing the needed actions.

They have one life, as you do. Their aging will keep going on, you cannot say it to stop using money or anything. Think from their perspective, they are emotional being, not so strong as new generations. Few things can easily make them feel unworthy or decrease their self respect or self confidence or their emotions will get hurt easily. But as they are the most precious thing you have, you have to live your life for them. Serving them with devotion. Increasing their self confidence, self respect, self worth with your thinking, actions, behavior. They are not means to you, who you will use. Instead they should and have to be always end in themselves, i.e. you have to life your life for them, serve them, do things for them, aligning yourself with their goals.

What to do ?

1. Understand each family member: Understand their worth, their emotions, their thinking by sitting sometime alone and thinking about them.

2. Serve each of them like your guru: Find processes, actions, patterns, serve to increase their self worth and worth in society, increase their self confidence, increase their self respect. Ways to serve them. Treat them as guru, listening each thing and following strictly what they say.

3. Self boundaries that you cannot do never ever few things: Set clear boundaries what not to do with them or with other or with yourself that can affect them directly or indirectly.

Family >> self, self goals, self emotions, self prosperity, self everything > job, money, relatives, all other possible.

 

1. Understand each family member

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2. Serve each of them like your guru

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2. Self boundaries that you cannot do never ever few things

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